You dont have to be a DICK 🍆
'Sup Sisters, It's a fresh start to the week and I've already been pushed over the edge 🙄. SO, this one is for my bitches that have a person in their life that make them want to peel their own skin off. Like you'd literally rather rip off your own toenails than have to be in this persons presence or low and behold have a whole chat with them... BUT plot twist, you have no choice and it has you ready to throw on the straight jacket cause you're losing your damn mind. 🤪 The CONUMDRUM is real. 👏 You probably already know that I'm a big believer in telling people the things they NEED to hear, even if they don't want to hear it. I love to bounce shit off of people, share what I've learned, and learn from them too. I'm also a big believer in protecting my energy and not being a dick unnecessarily. Unfortunately, there are just some people in life that I cannot vibe with. And some of those people I quite literally HAVE to associate with even if i'd really rather not at this point in my life.
And i know i'm not alone in that. We all have those people that grind our gears and refuse to take the well intended thoughts we share to SUPPORT the situation and make the interactions less tense. But no, that would make too much sense. 🫠🙃 So what do we do??
Keep pushing. Try to get through to them. Scream at the top of our lungs. Spend fucking hours bitching about how much they pissed us off today. Until eventually, we just say something shitty that probably deserves an apology. I feel you sis. Fact is, you don't have a choice to throw hands or walk away unless making things worse in on the itinerary. BUT the thing that I need you to hear is YOU DO STILL HAVE A CHOICE.
You can always choose your own mothafuckin' PEACE.
You don't have to act out of character or lose yourself in trying to make things make sense for someone else. That is not your responsibility. It also isn't your responsibility to tell them they are the biggest pain in your ass. That is not a bad bitch move. That is a dick move.
You can be a bad bitch who says shit with her chest, stands on boundaries, and protects her energy without being an asshole. (because you're NOT an asshole, so why let someone make you something you're not.)
Let me explain ⬇️⬇️⬇️
Oh hey there ✌️ If you're still reading down here it's nice to know i'm not the only one who refuses to miss any of the tea. I have been up to ALOT behind the scenes over here. Here's the top 5 you prob don't wanna miss.
#1 I am going to be sharing a lot more content that doesn't really seem related to our dance or boudoir studio but i assure you, it's all connected and i'm ready to start sharing everything, all the time. This email and video are just a taste of what you are going to be seeing a lot more of. This is exactly the kind of conversations I have with women on a daily basis in my studios. Everything i do is rooted in personal security, liberation, and taking up space so you can build a life that is so perfect for you it makes you WET. Photography and dance have always just been the physical ways you can explore it with me. And it's time I start sharing more of the conversations too.
If it's not your vibe, I understand. Welcome to the next level of the even less digestible cassie. If you decide I'm no longer your vibe I appreciate all the love and support up to this point and I wish nothing but the best for you as we part ways. If this is your vibe, HIT REPLY. I would love to hear your feedback and/or things you would love me to share more of my thoughts/experiences on!
#2 We finally joined this century and are officially on Instagram 👏 If you want the daily shit show, behind-the-scenes nonsense, opinions nobody asked for, photography, dance, and whatever the hell else I'm doing that day, come hang out with me over there. ➡️ FOLLOW US ON INSTA
#3 The website is under MASS CONSTRUCITON. I am burning it TF down and I am so excited to be creating something that feels like who we are now. If you've had a session with us and want your hot ass featured on the new website, check out this post ➡️ CLICK HERE
#4 Scholarships Sessions just opened up 😮 If you're watching the days of 2026 disappear and realizing you're definitely about to let another year fly by and STILL haven't had your "one day" photoshoot fall in your lap. It's time to do sum about that 👀
6 spots, 40% off collections, and over $400 off your session fee. Get the deets and apply while it lasts: SCHOLARSHIP DEETS + APPLICATION
#5 (last but not least) The Center Stage Sirens season is officially here 🥳 Our first team meeting is happening in just a few weeks, and I still have a VERY small number of spots I'm looking to fill. This is our adult performance team. You do not need to be a professional dancer. You just need to be willing to learn, show the fuck up, get uncomfortable (in the best way), and find out what happens when you stop telling yourself "I wish I could do shit like that."
Because you literally CAN if you just decide to fuck around and find out.
Stop lurking and be about it. GET THE SIRENS DEETS ➡️
Anyway. That's enough shit for one email. 🤪
Go protect your peace, quit trying to teach grown ass adults lessons they refuse to learn, and remember: You don't have to be an asshole just because somebody is really fucking good at inviting you to be one.
With Chaos + Gratitude, Your Bestie Cassie 😘
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